QUESTION:
If a brother is committing sin and of his own free will quits the church does he cease to be a brother? If he is committing one of the sins listed in lCor.5:9-13 does the church have any obligation toward him since he has voluntarily left the church?
ANSWER:
An individual does not cease to be a brother or child of God just because he sins and leaves the church. The prodigal left “the Father’s house” but did not cease being a son or brother. In l John 5:16 says “If any man see his brother sin a sin which is not unto death, he shall ask, and he shall give him life for them that sin not unto death. There is a sin unto death: I do not say that he shall pray for it.” In this verse a brother has sinned, yet he remains a brother in spite of that fact. Galations 6:1 teaches that “if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual restore such an one in the spirit of meekness...” The man overtaken is a brother both before and after the sin. If one should cease to be a brother merely because he sins and leaves the church, what would he have to do should he decide to return? If he ceased to be a brother because of his sin, would he need to be baptized again? Surely not. The very question answers itself. But what obligation, if any, does the church have toward a sinning brother if he leaves the church? First of all the church should seek to restore him. Secondly, the church should have no fellowship with him in his sin. Paul in I Corinthians 5:11 writes “But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolater, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner;” This passage forbids social fellowship whether the person has left the church or not. Thirdly, there are situations that demand withdrawal of fellowship. The matter in 1 Corinthians is such a situation. So also the matter in II Thessalonians 3:6 where the inspired writer says “Now we command you, brethren, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that ye withdraw yourselves from every brother that walketh disorderly, and not after the tradition which he received of us.” The disorderly person in this verse was out of step, having broken rank with the rest of the church. We must remember that fellowship is not a one time thing that happens for an hour or two each week, but rather a seven days a week and twenty-four hours a day relationship. The discipline demanded by the bible is not pleasant. In fact it is often very distasteful, but it is nevertheless enjoined by the scriptures.